Sometimes you can't win for losing!

OK, who said that silly phrase? What I'm really trying to say is...when you think you're doing someone a favor, helping them out and they perceive it as unwarranted and their feelings are hurt..... what do you do? Well, I apologized for doing what I did. I hadn't realized it was going to offend her! I got the silent treatment all day and she didn't show up for the night workshop either.